Wedding Anecdotes 101: Why You Should and Shouldn't Get Your Friend's Help

This is something that I learned from a friend, which I'm starting to realize just now:


Why you should: You get stuff for free.

Why you shouldn't: You can't boss them around, text or call them every now and then to ask things like "Hey, any updates on that stuff that I asked you to work on?" because first of all, you're not paying them; second of all, you're still their friend, not their boss.


So if you're starting to think that the wedding pressure is taking its toll on you and your friends are nowhere to be found, maybe it's time you consider adjusting your budget and look for people who get paid to do the job.